Wedding and Honeymoon Planning

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By coolhubs

Weddings & preparation

Weddings can pose a complicated and tedious workload even to an experienced wedding facilitator.This is because it is a complicated process of human interaction with special intimate relationships. It is made even more complicated by the notion of perfection expected in it and also the commercial element involved in it.Traditional and common practices however ease the burden for activities which are by default allocated to certain individuals.With civilization and social mobility, most of these customs have been lost and where they exist may even not be explained.uncommon history with common usage have retained the conventions of weddings bridging to contemporary common practices, and thus creating a seamless hustle free wedding

wedding customs

Common Traditional Wedding Practices

Uncommon History Of common Wedding Things

There are various different type of weddings with different practices, but one common practice which seams almost universal is that of exchanging some gifts. The most cherished and common gift especially in the western world is exchanging of rings. traditionally, the ring should be a continuos plain circle and commonly of precious metal mainly gold, though silver maybe an alternative. Its meant to signify the everlasting love which can not be broken. The value of the ring signify how much that intention means, and that it is priceless. This alone makes the party to the wedding search for the best precious ring , which normally is placed on fourth finger as in the origins, it was said to have some magical connection to the heart which would help sustain the marriage

White Wedding

Weddings in western world and christian countries tend to be of a white dress and white veil. Most people do associate the white dress with purity and high virtues, what about the veil? Most think thats just part of the dressing. The origins of a veil was to wade off evil. The evil spells would be offered a veil of confusion hence no harm could be done to the bride- at one point veils are said to have been won by all the bridal team of maids. In UK, it appears before the wedding of Queen Victoria to Albert, weddings did not have a standard colour.Victoria was a princes of very high moral standing and so choose white colour ,hence the tradition was started. Before her a bride just wore her favourite or best dress of any colour, and if she could afford would buy a new dress.

Bridal Gift Items

The bride is expected to have a new item, an old item, borrowed item,something blue and a bridal bouquet. All these had significant meaning,and first three could easily be bundled together. New item was to signify new life, so normally most take pride in having new wedding dress or shoes .An old item had to be a gift from a happily married family member as a blessing that the item links her and rest of her family and the past through the item and so will also be happily married. A borowed item is meant to remind her that in married life she can not make it alone but has to rely on others for help. Something blue, normally the garter denotes faithfulness and an acknowledgement of moon as protector of women. The bridal flowers signify beauty and fertility.It seems the Uk royal family do hold most of these customs (probably thats why Prince William gave Kate his mothers engagement ring, and probaly will borrow a tiara for her from his grandmother,the queen) . It is possible to have all these items in one though.

Honeymoon

The honeymoon concept means a holiday vacation for newly weds to a distant holiday resort.Its a time for the couple to have uninterupted time together, enjoying the company of each other. Most couples make their own arrangement or their events organiser does this for them. This popular concept seems to have been borrowed from middle east though.The approach to seems abit different however seems to have the same ingregients of a period of leisure at home.

Honeymoon was originally the gift the father inlaw gave to the groom. The tradition is said to have started in Babylon and the gift comprised of as much beer as he wanted to drink for one month. They had lunar month calendar and the beer was honey based hence the terminology honeymoon.

Wedding Preparations

Planning a wedding is not the easiest activity to engage in,luckily families,community and friends do get personally involved. The social trends and technology have however alienated most people from these free resources especially in urban working class life.Some commercial bodies have emerged that offer everything from shopping, speeches,wedding ceremony, receiption, honeymoon, photography,video,bridal coaching, bridal diet, fitness, bridal gown and groom clothes, stag night, bridal shower, honeymoon and even sponsoorship to the event. This in essence means a working bride or groom has no reason not to tap in the community resource for what the primary community can not provide can be be done by proffesional wedding organisers- of course at a price,or if lucky by a sponsoor who has an interest in promoting his business through them.The link below is a one stop wedding preparation and planning worth of checking up.

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